Building (and Maintaining) a <desc. follows> Being
One cannot rely on objective standardized tests to gauge how good one is at the act of being.
They’re good to indicate a specific aspect of where you wish to affirm your competence in, but have exhibit numerous fallacies when you’re trying to optimize a probabilistic, unstructured, instinct based behaviour over longer spans of durations, ranging from weeks to decades.
Such a gauge is probably only exhaustively captured in how the complexities of life unroll around you based on your behaviours.